Vindya Ayyar


What women want? Is it a rocket science???? I don’t think so…..there are many things they surely want, however,  I would like to touch upon a few important ones. They want respect , creativity in keeping her happy, love the way she is and last but definetley the biggest one is “confidence in your approach”!!!  to put it in Ranbir kapoor’s style….”keep it simple silly”!!
Who is the hero? Who is a dream man?? And who is adorable???  It was distinctly categorized that a man who rescues , who is romantic also listens to his girl fits in the complete “raymond” man!! The ladies who belong to my generation will vouch for this, because good = heroism in our days.  A  bad Rajinikanth is guided by his wife / girl friend and turns into a nice man, is what we enjoyed in our hay days sorry younger days!!  We would never bother about the villian, he was always projected as a heartless, cunning, blood thirsty wretch!!! 
However, time has changed now. My big question to these young girls is….why are you getting attracted to negatives? A  person who has more dark shades in his personality has the maximum girls in his arms, contemporary movies are made on anti hero subject and which is a huge hit among the youngsters. Of course I do agree that a girl can make or break a home, but the latest trend is the girl herself getting onto his path, which is really a wake up call for all of us.  A boy who says that “I am bad” is considered as the best person on the earth for any girl, as she thinks that he is being frank. Girls have to realize that by uttering the statement the boy is very clear of what he wants!!! However the girls are perplexed and   succumb  to his demands  at the end.
Another unconventional thing which is prevailing in our young minds is “ love for vampires” !!! It has won many hearts through the latest “Twilight series”. This shows the height of boredom in their life and people want to explore eccentric things! Our old novels have to be face lifted and made to  appeal to the young generation, at the same time….we should not forget the basics.
 I have mentioned in my  introductory lines about the four  things  which are very important to win a girl. To emphasize  more on that, Be creative and confident in your approach. Girls dn’t want your macho or dominance in your attitude.  Create your own  brand image, they just want a honest, secured love from her man.
And for the girls… not jump to glorified stuff, all are short lived. Be with a man who says the world looks beautiful because of your presence. 

Men are from mars and Women are from venus…..but they live on the earth! 

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    July 21, 2011

    HEAR HEAR!!!

    or shud i say READ READ!!! 😛

    awesome stuff ma'am..miss ur classes

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    achuth chowdary
    July 21, 2011

    hm cooooll.. 🙂
    nice writeup.. 🙂

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    Rohith Janumpally
    July 21, 2011

    super maam..
    Really loved it..:)

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    July 22, 2011

    wow! baby tooooooooooooooooooooooooo gud ra. i really liked it. Its true for today,s generation. keep writing.

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    July 22, 2011

    wow… too good a piece to read.
    probably this wil b my inspiration to improve my blog…

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    July 22, 2011

    dear all, i thank you so much for your comments! this makes me keep going…:)

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    July 25, 2011

    Yeah, the anti-hero subjects are a great hit with all. But it does not really translate that the all girls like men with dark shades. Actually we all have our grey areas and the trick lies in choosing wisely. And in this department, I feel today's generation have their heads firmly screwed onto their shoulders…. Cheers!

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    Dr.Suguna Kannan
    August 2, 2011

    Thought provoking! I suppose it is the maternal instinct thinking it can mould the "bad" boy to become "good" and essentially the modern girls are looking for "cool" features without really being clear as to what is really "cool".

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    August 28, 2011

    Just a wow!!! Nothing more to comment ma'am.

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    November 7, 2011

    so true …:)

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